{"id":521,"date":"2017-06-04T07:23:37","date_gmt":"2017-06-04T06:23:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/eres-una-buena-madre\/"},"modified":"2017-06-04T07:23:37","modified_gmt":"2017-06-04T06:23:37","slug":"ets-una-bona-mare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/ets-una-bona-mare\/","title":{"rendered":"Ets una bona mare."},"content":{"rendered":"
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Una mare australiana va mantenir una breu conversa amb una psic\u00f2loga infantil que es va convertir en una meravellosa lli\u00e7\u00f3 sobre la maternitat. La resposta de la psic\u00f2loga<\/p>\n\n

li va deixar empremta:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\u00bbFa un parell de setmanes un terapeuta infantil va mirar els meus fills i em va dir\u2026<\/em>
\n\\\u00bbEts una bona mare.\\\u00bb<\/em>
\nSentint-me com un frau total, vaig dir: \\\u00bbNo em sento com una bona mare. Els nens m'estan tornant boja, estic perdent la paci\u00e8ncia i em quedo adormida a la nit preguntant-me on aconseguir\u00e9 paci\u00e8ncia per a un altre dia\\\u00bb<\/em>
\nAl que ella va respondre amb una declaraci\u00f3 que no he pogut oblidar,<\/em>
\n\u00bbEls beb\u00e8s ploren, \u00e9s com es comuniquen. Els nens petits protesten, i els adolescents es queixen.<\/em>
\nLlavors les mares diuen les paraules \u00abfotre merda en el seu al\u00e8 abans de cada resposta. \u00c9s com ens comuniquem?<\/em>
\nPer\u00f2 endevina qu\u00e8 Constance? \u00c9s millor que el silenci.<\/em>
\nUna casa plena de nois cridant i adolescents que lluiten i uns pares a qui se'ls contesta \u00e9s sa per a mi.<\/em>
\nS\u00f3n els nens silenciosos, els nens temorosos, els adolescents que no arriben a casa i els pares que no estan en comunicaci\u00f3 amb els fills que em preocupen.<\/em>
\nI els nens no et tornen boig, ja eres boig. Per aix\u00f2 els vas tenir.<\/em>
\nI aix\u00ed, em vaig sentir com una bona mare de nou.\\\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n

Mares del m\u00f3n!! Respirar profund, esteu fent una bona feina.<\/p>\n

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Una madre australiana mantuvo una breve conversaci\u00f3n con una psic\u00f3loga infantil que se convirti\u00f3 en una maravillosa lecci\u00f3n sobre la […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":526,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,29],"tags":[90,19,20,21,22,23,91,24,25,16,26,27,28],"class_list":["post-521","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-estimulacion-infantil","category-supermadres","tag-acompanamiento","tag-autoconocimiento","tag-crecimiento-personal","tag-crianza","tag-crisis","tag-educacion","tag-educacion-infantil","tag-madre","tag-maternidad","tag-ninos","tag-padre","tag-paternidad","tag-psicologia-positiva"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/521","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=521"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/521\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/526"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=521"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=521"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=521"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}