{"id":621,"date":"2017-09-13T20:29:21","date_gmt":"2017-09-13T19:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/la-maternidad-que-no-nos-contaron\/"},"modified":"2017-09-13T20:29:21","modified_gmt":"2017-09-13T19:29:21","slug":"la-maternitat-que-no-ens-van-explicar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/la-maternitat-que-no-ens-van-explicar\/","title":{"rendered":"La maternitat que no ens van explicar."},"content":{"rendered":"

Perqu\u00e8 mai no es revelen les veritables etapes de la maternitat?<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed trobar\u00e0s el que mai em van explicar, el que vaig descobrir per la preciosa, exigent i dura experi\u00e8ncia de ser mare, mirant enrere i despr\u00e9s de diversos anys comparant entre dones veient que aquests moments es presenten a totes com marees imparables.<\/p>\n

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  1. Aquesta il\u00b7lusi\u00f3.<\/strong> Aquesta il\u00b7lusi\u00f3 sobre el que vindr\u00e0, amb totes les teves emocions trobades per\u00f2 encara controlables, encara. El teu cos canvia i potser la teva gana, les teves n\u00e0usees, la teva brillantor, encara et reconeixes entrant a la roda de l'aventura que comen\u00e7a\u2026 sola corres a aventurar-te al m\u00f3n de\u2026<\/li>\n
  2. Qui \u00e9s aquesta? <\/strong>Amagada en un cos desorientat a la tempesta hormonal que no sembla el teu, que fa mal, que se'n ressent, tira i estira, cansada amb cops de calor, canvis d'humor, pujant de pes en una muntanya russa que aviat far\u00e0 el seu descens\u2026<\/li>\n
  3. Ser\u00e0 avui?<\/strong> Carregada de por, incertesa i incomoditat. Arribar\u00e0 el dia de\u2026 aquell dia on has de donar-ho tot siguin 1 o 24 hores, sense experi\u00e8ncia, amb epidural o sense, hospitalitzada oa casa, sense saber com comen\u00e7ar\u00e0, ni on, ni com\u2026 aix\u00f2 s\u00ed, amb la maleta feta encara que mai estiguis a prop seu quan passa.<\/li>\n
  4. El gran somni<\/strong>. Aix\u00f2 \u00e9s, molt molt somni, plors de beb\u00e8 i d'adult, bolquers, pit! Si et deixen! Perqu\u00e8 al teu voltant s'encarregaran de dir-te els tres milions de consells sobre crian\u00e7a i lact\u00e0ncia que segurament ja vas llegir en els darrers nou mesos. D'aqu\u00ed \u00e9s on ve la mala llet. La teva mare, el teu marit, el teu nad\u00f3\u2026 el m\u00e9s bonic del m\u00f3n de vegades es torna en unes sensacions que ofeguen i t'empenyen a voler c\u00f3rrer i escapar-te de tu mateixa.<\/li>\n
  5. Bye bye baby!<\/strong> La separaci\u00f3. Quan comences a acomodar-te amb tot\u2026 acomiada't del teu nad\u00f3 i v\u00e9s-te a treballar, es va acabar d'actuar, creus que el viatge es va acabar, sents que deixes de gaudir aquestes vacances que van durar una setmana per\u00f2 van comen\u00e7ar fa un any.<\/li>\n
  6. On \u00e9s el meu temps.<\/strong> Com pot canviar tant una rutina, ara s\u00e9 qu\u00e8 \u00e9s rutina. Persegueixes una rutina que acabes de descobrir mentre segueixes els consells de tota la comunitat de mares terrestres que sembla que van oblidar que elles tamb\u00e9 van arribar a aquest temps.<\/li>\n
  7. Estresducaci\u00f3<\/strong>. Tamb\u00e9 elles es van desestructurar, van passar la depressi\u00f3 postpart que poc se'n parla i menys es parla d'aquesta depressi\u00f3 que ve quan els teus fills caminen per si mateixos i corren a aventurar-se al m\u00f3n deixant-te enrere amb el que queda de tu i mirant a la teva parella que sembla que et mira cr\u00edtic en la llunyania m\u00e9s propera, ja no el coneixes ni et reconeix. La teva vida social, de parella, familiar, el teu cos, les teves aficions\u2026 Ser\u00e0 possible tornar a comen\u00e7ar?<\/li>\n
  8. Segueix el t\u00fanel fins a la llum.<\/strong> Per\u00f2 saps una cosa! Es pot comen\u00e7ar de nou perqu\u00e8 despr\u00e9s de tocar el terra al fons del pou i quan sembla que tot el nostre castell, que en realitat mai no va existir, s'agafa impuls i es torna a respirar, a caminar, a somriure, tornes a trobar la dona que portes dins i la traur\u00e0s fins a tornar a menjar-te el m\u00f3n, deixant de viure la vida a trav\u00e9s de totes les persones que t'envolten. Vindr\u00e0 la llum, t'ho prometo, i en realitat, sempre va estar dins teu amagada per\u00f2 ni tan sols la miraves aix\u00ed que obre la porta i mira la teva llum per deixar-te tornar a viure.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    A totes les mares que lluiten unides per cordons umbilicals imaginaris a aquesta humanitat que mai no sabr\u00e0 el que van passar fins que completin el cercle convertides en mares.<\/p>\n

    Cristina Oroz Baix<\/p>\n

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    \u00bfPorqu\u00e9 nunca se revelan las verdaderas etapas de la maternidad? Aqu\u00ed encontrar\u00e1s lo que nunca me contaron, lo que descubr\u00ed […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":560,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[19,20,102,62,25],"class_list":["post-621","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-supermadres","tag-autoconocimiento","tag-crecimiento-personal","tag-experiencias-de-vida","tag-madres","tag-maternidad"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/621","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=621"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/621\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/560"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=621"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=621"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=621"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}