Quan et converteixes en mare i pare la gent de compte qu\u00e8 ser\u00e0 incre\u00efble, el fascinant de criar unes personetes que s\u00f3n la prolongaci\u00f3 dels teus sentits, que et donen tot el que no et pot donar res, per\u00f2 tamb\u00e9 et treuen l'espai, el temps i el sentit submergint-te en un oce\u00e0 de canvis inimaginables.<\/p>\n
Cal preparar-se per als plors incessants, les malalties que t'estrenyen l'est\u00f3mac, els bolquers bruts, el caos que sembla interminable a casa, ensopegar amb joguines all\u00e0 on cau el teu peu, nits que arriben a setmanes i fins i tot mesos sense dormir, discutir per mirades, dubtes existencials, canvis i canvis entorn social, la teva rutina, el teu lleure, les teves prioritats i prefer\u00e8ncies. Totes aquestes coses tamb\u00e9 acompanyen ser mare i pare i ser\u00e0 molt dur. De fet ens trobem amb moltes crisis al llarg d'aquesta fase de maternitat que si no se superen poden arribar a desencadenar en ruptura, depressi\u00f3, estr\u00e8s... i tot aix\u00f2 des de la pitjor situaci\u00f3, davant la responsabilitat m\u00e9s gran d'actuar d'una manera impecable, segura, cordial, dol\u00e7a en l'\u00e8poca de m\u00e9s exig\u00e8ncia de les nostres vides.<\/p>\n
Ser\u00e0s impredictible, desmesurat, egoista, maleducat, irrespectu\u00f3s, capritx\u00f3s, impulsiu, agressiu, expert\u2026 i per altra banda lluitador, fort, condescendent, emp\u00e0tic, model, negociador, pacificador, orador, te\u00f2ric i pr\u00e0ctic. Podeu imaginar la complexa situaci\u00f3 d'arribar a l'equilibri de tot aix\u00f2 mantenint la balan\u00e7a cap al costat correcte mentre segueixen muntant-se pesos sense control a banda i banda en segons.<\/p>\n
Pensa abans de parlar, parla sense parar, per donar-te oxigen, oxigena't nom\u00e9s, amb la teva parella o nom\u00e9s amb els teus nens, apr\u00e8n a no ser perfecte, assumeix els errors que semblen lloses que mai et deixaran tornar a mirar els ulls als teus fills, a la teva parella, als teus pares\u2026 errors que ara tenen un pes i una inigualable. Pensa en el proc\u00e9s no paral\u00b7lel de l'altre, amb ritmes oposats i fins i tot contraris i tan llunyans com propers. I no prenguis determinacions dr\u00e0stiques sense fer una mirada interna, externa i global de la situaci\u00f3 i sense haver posat tota la teva llenya al foc, criticant-te, canviant, respirant i posant-te al costat de la persona que t'acompanya tamb\u00e9 temor\u00f3s i valent en aquest proc\u00e9s. D\u00f3na't una oportunitat a tu, perqu\u00e8 les eines les tens tu, perqu\u00e8 la bogeria \u00e9s esperar resultats diferents fent, dient i respirant sempre de la mateixa manera.<\/p>\n
D\u00f3na't import\u00e0ncia com a instrument generador de canvi, d'oxigen, d'alegria i de pau perqu\u00e8 la pot\u00e8ncia humana \u00e9s incre\u00efble i pot amb la muntanya m\u00e9s alta, la decepci\u00f3 m\u00e9s gran, el desengany i el desamor tornant tot des d'endins, des d'un mateix, des de tu. I mai, mai t'oblidis del que realment vols i si realment el que fas va en aquesta direcci\u00f3 o t'allunya d'ella.<\/p>\n
Cristina Oroz Baix<\/p>\n
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