{"id":689,"date":"2018-03-08T10:55:10","date_gmt":"2018-03-08T09:55:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/madres-mujeres-hermanas-parejas-companeras-eternas-companeras-milagro-companeras-sin-dueno-companeras-siempre-companeras\/"},"modified":"2018-03-08T10:55:10","modified_gmt":"2018-03-08T09:55:10","slug":"mares-dones-germanes-parelles-companyes-eternes-companyes-miracle-companyes-sense-amo-companyes-sempre-companyes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cristinaorozbajo.com\/ca\/mares-dones-germanes-parelles-companyes-eternes-companyes-miracle-companyes-sense-amo-companyes-sempre-companyes\/","title":{"rendered":"Mares, dones, germanes, parelles, companyes, eternes, companyes, miracle, companyes, sense amo, companyes, sempre, companyes."},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div id=\"\\\"sc_videointext\\\"\" style=\"\\\"text-align:\" right;\\\">\u00a0<em>Sense la dona la vida \u00e9s pura prosa.<\/em><\/div>\n<div style=\"\\\"text-align:\" right;\\\">Rub\u00e9n Dar\u00edo<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h3><strong><a href=\"\/ca\/\"https:>Companyes<\/a><\/strong><\/h3>\n<h5><a href=\"\/ca\/\"https:><strong><\/strong>VEURE EL VIDEO<\/a><\/h5>\n<p>El millor que pot fer un home quan veu una dona besar el seu fill, quan veu una dona trencar-li la cara a l&#039;hivern i partir-se l&#039;esquena per la resta \u00e9s apartar-se, observar atentament, posar-se dret. Deia <strong>Escandar <\/strong>que mir\u00e9s on mir\u00e9s nom\u00e9s veia dones lluitant, dones carregant, dones obrint, dones guarint.<\/p>\n<p>Les veur\u00e0s sempre disposades, llobes que alleten, cuiden els seus cadells, cuiden tot, mares de bra\u00e7os oberts, de pit obert, d&#039;\u00e0nima oberta. c\u00e0rrec de la producci\u00f3, a c\u00e0rrec de la vida. S\u00f3n a tot arreu, obrint el cam\u00ed, portant-te llum, esborrant del teu front els fantasmes.<\/p>\n<p>Dones a qu\u00e8 els claven els colzes perqu\u00e8 no pugin en l&#039;ordre social fixat pels homes perqu\u00e8 es deuen a la llar. M\u00f3n d&#039;homes, dones frenades, m\u00f3n patriarcal, m\u00f3n malalt, dones llen\u00e7ades fora, dones sense ed\u00e8n. Limitant-se a estimar, a veure la distribuci\u00f3 desigual del poder ia continuar estimant. Dones que estimen, divisi\u00f3 sexual del treball, dones que estimen, obstacles per avan\u00e7ar, feines no remunerades (estimar i callar), dones que estimen, competents per\u00f2 que no destaquin, m\u00f3n patriarcal, m\u00f3n malalt, m\u00f3n malalt, m\u00f3n malalt.<\/p>\n<p>Dona anunci perqu\u00e8 tu gaudeixis, perqu\u00e8 tu la miris, dona objecte. Dona bombardejada:, la dictadura dels cosm\u00e8tics, complexos i m\u00e9s complexos, vendes i m\u00e9s vendes.<\/p>\n<p>Dones a les quals obliguem a ser mares, amants, gerro, costella, Ventafocs, cuineres, putes, educadores, costella d&#039;Adam, estora, ventiquatreset, sempre perfectes, costella i culpable, pecat original, sempre preparades com jo ho desitgi, com vulguin els homes, sempre a m\u00e0. I no nom\u00e9s costella, i no nom\u00e9s Maria Magdalena, i no nom\u00e9s bordell, tamb\u00e9 burca, <strong>Juana La Loca<\/strong>, tamb\u00e9 ablaci\u00f3,\u00a0<strong> Joana d&#039;Arc<\/strong>, matrimonis acordats, tamb\u00e9 Pen\u00e9lope, Casandra, tamb\u00e9 Pandora, tamb\u00e9 la culpa, no nom\u00e9s costella.<\/p>\n<p>Viol\u00e8ncia dom\u00e8stica, amb cop o sense, justificacions, costums, excuses, normes socials acceptades, acceptades per tots perqu\u00e8 no tenim el valor de reprendre el m\u00f3n, amb elles al comandament, amb nosaltres al comandament, amb tots al comandament, tribunals que exculpen.<\/p>\n<p>Si no les veus, ets un imb\u00e8cil. Estan lluitant, partint-se l&#039;\u00e0nima per tothom. Molts ho diuen, que si elles governessin el m\u00f3n no hi hauria guerres. Cap impulsaria matar el fill que una altra dona hagu\u00e9s portat al seu ventre perqu\u00e8 nom\u00e9s elles conceben el dolor sense fi de perdre un fill. Mai desposseirien una altra mare del miracle de ser-ho. Mai. No ho farien mai.<\/p>\n<p>Jo nom\u00e9s vull que descansin, que les deixem descansar, que aquest segle a poc a poc els torni el que hem perdut, els seus horaris, que deixin de netejar el nostre cam\u00ed, de resoldre els nostres mots encreuats, que ja en tenen prou amb els seus, els seus fantasmes, que oblidin ja els meus, els teus.<\/p>\n<p>El mirall de <strong>Frida<\/strong>, el mirall de <strong>Szymborska<\/strong>, el mirall de <strong>Rosa Parks<\/strong>, les mares de la Pla\u00e7a de Maig, Mafalda, Femen,<strong>Simone de Beauvoir<\/strong>, dones en lluita contra la hist\u00f2ria, les mans de la mare <strong>Teresa de Calcuta<\/strong>,<strong> Indira Gandhi<\/strong>, <strong>Vict\u00f2ria Kent<\/strong> i la seva mirada al pres. L&#039;exemple, el cam\u00ed marcat.<\/p>\n<p>Mares, dones, germanes, parelles, companyes, eternes, companyes, miracle, companyes, sense amo, companyes, sempre, companyes.<\/p>\n<div>\nDel llibre <em>Tots els meus futurs s\u00f3n amb tu<\/em> (Planeta, 2015).<\/div>\n<div>\n<em>*<span class=\"\\\"txt_red\\\"\"><strong>Marwan <\/strong><\/span>\u00e9s m\u00fasic i poeta. El seu darrer llibre, <\/em><a href=\"\/ca\/\"http:>Tots els meus futurs s\u00f3n amb tu<\/a><em> (Planeta, 2015).\u00a0<\/em><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0Sin la mujer la vida es pura prosa. 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