Parents, here you have the basis to consciously face the multitude of situations that will arise, a test of yourselves that with its mistakes and successes will mark and determine the lives of your children, evolve towards the best version of yourself and learn with them and for them because… \»The best legacy a father can give his children is a little of his time every day.
About children…Do you know what it means to be a child?…
Being a child means not worrying about the future. It means playing at being an adult. It means learning from everything without knowing that mistakes are made. It means taking life slowly. It means living life without knowing it's a moment. It means finding a smile in everything. It means always hiding and never finding yourself. It means thinking that life will always be like this.
About parents... Are you a good role model? Do you do everything you say?
Do you know how to communicate? Do you shout? Do you use the word "no" in every sentence? Or do you truly trust your child and let them do what they want, allowing them to make mistakes without punishment or reproach? Do you use threats to get your child to do things? You force them because that's the way things are and because you say so. Do you kiss and hug them every day? Do you make mistakes in front of your child and acknowledge it? Do you explain the consequences of their actions or do you push them away when they have difficulties or don't get what they want? Do you know how to play without directing? Do you play with your children enough? Does your child laugh when playing with you? Do you dance with your children? Do you share music with your children?
About your son…Do you know what your son is like?…
What do you think he would wish for if he could have three wishes? Do you know three of your child's virtues and three defects? What does he like doing most with you? What does he like doing least? What makes him angry, what makes him happy, what makes him sad, what scares him, what embarrasses him? If your child one day became invisible, what do you think he would do?
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